tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-167272262024-03-23T19:52:06.412+02:00The Imperfect PoetWRITER / EDITOR /
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MC / SPEAKER /
MEDIA CONSULTANT /
SOCIAL COMMENTATOR /
DREAMERKojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.comBlogger97125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-8952943962375385032009-02-26T20:35:00.000+02:002009-02-26T20:37:10.754+02:00ramblings - can you do everything?Greetings. In business, one must constantly revisit one's stratgy and plans to ensure that things are on track and to make the necessary changes to ensure that you stay on track. Or even, to change direction because reality often has its own ideas. In the world in which we currently live, which is moving at enormous speeds, business needs to be flexible and dynamic enough to make the necessary changes, otherwise it gets left behind.<p>The question is: do you do the same as an individual? Do you take stock of where you are going and the means you are using to get there? And when life evolves, do you evolve with it? We all have strengths and areas that we are not so strong in. Do you operate to your strengths? <p>Being the proverbial 'jack of all trades', I often grab at anything because I figure I can always hustle my way through it. Often, I end up hating the experience and distracting myself from what it is I am really good at (yeah, there are one or two things I can actually do relatively well). I haven't always done so but I have been working long enough to know what I enjoy doing and what I am above average in. As a result, if I am approached about something or go into something, if I know that I am not as strong, or simply do not know, I make it known and cede to those who do know. That way I am able to learn and enhance my knowledge. It takes pushing ego aside and leaving myself open to greater insight and greater value. I don't always get it right, but I do believe it is a step in the right direction.<p>This is a journey and none of us has all the answers. We need to acknowledge that, especially to ourselves. And then we need to surround ourselves with people who complement us, are able to take us, as a collective forward. Sometimes it means getting out of the way and following. If we don't, we end up as the stumbling blocks to achieving our own dreams.<p>A random thought.Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-58738243978408920192009-02-07T21:37:00.002+02:002009-02-07T21:45:25.633+02:00Jamati Online | Kojo Baffoe<a href="http://www.jamati.com/online/books/%e2%80%98i-want-to-sit-on-a-mountain-top-and-write%e2%80%99-kojo-baffoe/">"‘I want to sit on a mountain top and write’</a><br /><br />Interview by Ameyaw Debrah February 6, 2009 <a href="http://www.jamati.com/online/books/%e2%80%98i-want-to-sit-on-a-mountain-top-and-write%e2%80%99-kojo-baffoe/#comments">Leave a Comment</a><br /><br />“My poetry is deep…so deep it echoes words infinitely…so deep it drowns simple minds in tears…so deep it solves Africa’s problems in one verse…so deep it transcends racism and breaks down sexism.” This is how Kojo Baffoe, a dynamic African writer/poet and media consultant chooses to define his work in ‘The power of po’ taken from his book, ‘Voices in My Head - a collection of poetry’.<br /><br />Born in Munich, Germany to a Ghanaian father and German mother, Kojo spent his formative years on the streets of Maseru, Lesotho; spent some time in Germany to get in touch with his Germanic roots; and ended up receiving his Bachelor of Commerce at the University of KwaZulu-Natal. The well-travelled and vastly knowledgeable Kojo has since had varied working experiences in a number of sectors including IT, fashion and cosmetics, and publishing. However, Kojo is more famed for his amazing gift of writing, whether as a poet or a writer of lifestyle issues and popular culture. He currently lives with his lovely wife and son in Johannesburg, where he is often referred to as ‘the love poet’. Jamati.com spoke to the ever-growing and ever-innovative writer/poet and media consulting extraordinaire about his life, poetry and gift as a writer. » <a href="http://www.jamati.com/online/books/%e2%80%98i-want-to-sit-on-a-mountain-top-and-write%e2%80%99-kojo-baffoe/#more-5387">Read more…</a><br /><br /><span style="color:#33ccff;">My thanks to Ameyaw. really enjoyed this interview.</span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"></span>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-68624176722042139682009-02-03T23:34:00.002+02:002009-02-03T23:40:58.479+02:00ramblings - dipping & diving<span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;">Greetings. As we creep further in 2009, the more I find myself wandering off path. I started the year fired up with ideas built on ideas built on dreams. I put together plans, layout projects that will change the world (at least my little piece of it), phone and generally harass people, and jump into the new year with excitement, fervour, determination and commitment.<br /><br />Then 'real life' takes over. Bills need to be paid and money needs to be made. I find myself then compromising on the ideas and projects and plans just so I can get through the day, which becomes frustrating. Which then leads to more compromises as the excitement fades.<br /><br />But...<br /><br />The key to this year, for me, having jumped back into the self-employed / freelance space, is to do things differently. It is to learn from previous forays into this world and not make the same mistakes. It is to take the experience gained and translate into a different reality.<br /><br />As with most things, easier said than done.<br /><br />Random thoughts.<br /><br />The one advantage of a little spare time is that I get to catch up on my reading. I've rambled about hime before, someone whose writing I'm enjoying is Seth Godin (</span><a href="http://www.sethgodin/"><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"></a></span><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"><a href="http://www.sethgodin.com/">www.sethgodin.com</span></a><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;">). And my new 'bible' is Timothy Ferriss' The Four Hour Work Week (</span><a href="http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/"><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;">www.fourhourworkweek.com</span></a><span style="font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;">). Since I just figured out the whole RSS feeds thing, I also get their blog posts regularly which I try to read as much as possible.<br /><br />They are what has helped with the reviving waning enthusiasm.<br /><br />Easy</span>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-3097514043447537452009-01-28T15:54:00.001+02:002009-01-28T15:54:56.445+02:00ramblings - the beginning & the end are often the sameI just realised that this is the second, if not third, end of year that I have been sending out ramblings, albeit sparsely in the last year. And this time of the year (although we are already getting deep into it), I tend to talk about the same things - the need for introspection, for taking stock, for looking back over the last year to understand how your present became your present so you can determine the future.
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<br>Nothing's changed. In fact, I find myself sitting in the same place I was last year, kinda. Self-employed. It has been an interesting, at times, long year. Last year this time I had left employment and forged out on my own. That lasted a couple of weeks and I spend 2008 in employment. Once again, I have taken the step out on my own. I have come to realise I am unemployable and need to focus on my dreams. What a friend of mine calls 'personal legend' and I simply call 'purpose'.
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<br>So what is your personal legend? What footprints are you going to leave on those around you, what legacy are you going to leave? How do you want to be remembered, even when you still here? I believe that what you are building in the future should be the lens through which you look at your present.
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<br>As we take a step into another year, these are the questions I ask myself. Do you think about them? Do you think about what 'you' represents to those around you? If someone speaks your name, what thoughts come to mind? Are they what you hope them to be?
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<br>Just a thought.
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<br>I have never been one for new year's resolutions but, for 2009, I seek to create some level of fluency and regularity with these ramblings. They are just random thoughts. They may or may not have relevance.
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<br>Easy runningsKojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-15294366512312353822008-10-08T12:32:00.000+02:002008-10-08T12:33:19.689+02:00ramblings - the revival<div align="justify">Greetings. It's been a while since I felt in a position to ramble. Share my thoughts, however coherent or otherwise. Life has a habit of taking over, leaving no room for introspection. And then, as stuff adds up, confusion reigns and clear thought departs. I have, however, had the chance to get some reading done lately and am busy finishing up The Dip by Seth Godin. The book explores the concept of quitting which seems apt when it comes to many of the choices we make on a daily basis.<br /><br />The main question is what does quitting imply? We live in a world that seems to equate quitting only with failure but he convincingly argues differently. I'm not going to get into the details of it (a quick and easy read, if you want to check it out). I have been looking at it in relation to my life. I have always tried to do what I enjoy doing and what inspires me in the belief that life is too short to do what you don't want to do. For that reason, it takes both hands and feet to count the industries I've explored. Lots of fun, great learnings and challenges. I have left projects and jobs at what to some may see as inopportune moments for my sanity.<br /><br />Life changes on us. Our responsibilities evolve. Our needs expand. These all affect the decisions we make. What I'm grappling with is whether one then does things they do not necessarily want to do to fulfil their duty. Where is the line between fulfilling self and fulfilling responsibility beyond self? How responsible is it to subject loved ones to sacrifice when it mainly feeds one's own desires?<br /><br />Who you are is determined by much, including what you do to make ends meet. We spend more time with the people we work with than our families. What this means, to me, is that the decision to pursue a career, a job, in a particular space, at a particular time, is an extremely important one that cannot be taken lightly. If you are reading this, it means you are one of the privileged few who actually have choice. What are you doing with it? I ask myself that every day and do not yet have an answer. Would love to hear your thoughts.</div><div align="justify"><br />Ramblings return more with questions than clear thoughts. </div>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-77416923960205027372008-04-01T07:11:00.001+02:002008-04-01T10:32:51.781+02:00ramblings - dream onI tend to recycle thoughts in these ramblings depending on where I am in the experience called life. Lately, I've been thinking about dreams a lot - not the ones that come to you when in sweet slumber but the ones that you set for yourself in waking moments. Is there is the 'end destination'? A moment when you will have achieved that ultimate dream? Or is it like the 'quest for zero defect', an ongoing process that is never finalised.<br /><br /><br /><br />I often wonder what that day will be like. The one when I wake up and I am living my ultimate dream. One of the things that keeps us going is the goals and milestones we have. And every time we achieve one, we shift onto the next one. And then the next. With that in mind, I often question that 'ultimate dream'. There are planned steps along the way but these constantly change as I gain further knowledge. Things I always wanted to do are forgotten as others come about that seem a better fit. I try to keep focused on the end state that I dream of, and ensure that everything I do works towards that, but what if that isn't what I really want. Do I have to reach that point to recognise that?<br /><br /><br /><br />Confusing, I know. I am sitting in a position where something I have contributed to has been realised and I am already looking beyond to what can be done next. There is no time to savour the moment and I find myself questioning this. Will this be the case with everything I do? When I released my first book, while excited about it, I was already thinking about my next one, and the one after that. Is it just me or is this normal?<br /><br /><br /><br />We expend so much emotion, time and energy of things but, when we achieve them, we shift the goalposts and find something new to chase after. That seems like the way of the world.<br /><br /><br /><br />When does it stop?Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-51550066773886951342008-03-18T14:03:00.000+02:002008-03-18T14:07:08.542+02:00ramblings - painful questionsThis is a ramblings in its purest form.  It is about 04:40am, I literally haven't slept in four days, and it doesn't look like I'm going to get to bed in another five to six hours ..... wondering how far is too far?  How far can one take the body before it becomes too much?  What would be considered truly beyond the call of duty? How much does one give of oneself for an ideal? Is there a cut off point? A point where you say, "okay, I tried."
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<br>Growing up, I was taught that you work hard.  As I grew older, I learnt that you need to work smart too.  Yet I find myself constantly driven by the need to work harder.  It was easier when I was alone, when I didn't have a family, but now ..... It is that same family that makes me want to work harder. I wonder. 
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<br>My son literally hasn't seen me in over a week.  I am the person who creeps into bed in the middle of night.  I am the person who feeds him and changes him in the shadows and then I am gone.  I am becoming an absentee father even though we 'live' in the same house.
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<br>My marriage has become random phone conversations. Am I becoming a husband just in name? 
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<br>There was a time when, as a man, one's role was merely to provide.  Those days are long gone and there is a need to truly be a part of one's family's life, as opposed to an occasional visitor - I've discovered I miss the waking up for nappy changes and feeds. It is easier than this (and perhaps more fulfilling?). 
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<br>In this driven, fast-paced world, we often need to drive ourselves hard to ensure that we can create the necessary foundation to allow ourselves the opportunity to enjoy our lives, with our families. But what if time passes us by and when we finally create that foundation, it is too late.
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<br>More question than thought.Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-27775682225059527702008-02-29T00:28:00.000+02:002008-02-29T00:30:57.253+02:00ramblings - what's your worth?What is your worth? As a human being? In your career? In your social circles?
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<br>We all inhabit so many spaces on a planet with billions of people. Do you ever wonder what you bring to it all? What the significance of you being here is? When you leave this physical realm, how will you be remembered beyond your family and friends? Do you need to be remembered beyond them? How quickly will you fade into distant memory? Or will you linger?
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<br>When a celebrity or anyone else the public eye moves on, they are celebrated (some), honoured and remembered. What makes them different from you and I? Are we not each unique beings with much to offer?
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<br>We inhabit a world that is becoming more and more connected, for those of us with the resources to take advantage of that connectivity (and we are a minority). This means that our contribution, our impact on humanity can reach that much further. Are we using it effectively?
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<br>These are the questions that plague and influence how I view and interact with the world. I just hope I get it right. The real influence lies with the 'ordinary' people, but we all need to step up to the plate and harness the power we have.
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<br>Just a thought.Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-26543739668309456422008-02-25T22:16:00.002+02:002008-12-10T13:52:47.646+02:00is there a future?<div align="justify"><span style="color:#990000;">Other than the dreaded writer’s block, staying inspired, enthused and committed to writing is one of the biggest challenges I face as a poet and writer, especially because I continue to dream of living solely off my writing, my passion.<br /><br />Over the years, I have attempted to do this with extremely limited success, but I still dream of being able to in the future. I envy writers who are able to take a sabbatical and commit to their writing for any particular period, whether a week, a month or a year.<br /><br />For those of us who have to squeeze the words in between hustling other hustles, it can be hard staying focused on that end goal. At times, it seems easier to pursue the whole writing thing as a hobby as opposed to attempting to build a career out of it. But, the heart, the soul demands that the words be spoken.<br /><br />Anyway, I struggle to stay excited about the whole poetry writing thing, especially since, in the last two years, I haven’t really been involved in the whole scene in Joburg or beyond. But today, I was fortunate enough to spend some time with Nandi, from Inside Out Literar</span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNJUbhdAqapMl_GUGNymrvev5WLA2-wuORcqqtdLDLw5QJX7XcxsxxZe3vwqBAAC-FzDmJRvgmi6zSoIvYfYRAKo-VEzUf3eVmfP4vFxI7uREynUsuomvrmMepYN_0Vwdyu-Ks/s1600-h/Kojo_hand2.jpg"><span style="color:#990000;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5171015004345942066" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNJUbhdAqapMl_GUGNymrvev5WLA2-wuORcqqtdLDLw5QJX7XcxsxxZe3vwqBAAC-FzDmJRvgmi6zSoIvYfYRAKo-VEzUf3eVmfP4vFxI7uREynUsuomvrmMepYN_0Vwdyu-Ks/s320/Kojo_hand2.jpg" border="0" /></span></a><span style="color:#990000;">y Arts Project, an NGO involved in schools programmes in Detroit. It was refreshing to be able to talk poetry and get a different perspective on it.<br /><br />I have, over the last year, discovered that my joy, my passion lies in the interaction with youth on poetry and writing. They still retain a love that hasn’t been tainted by the external, such as commercialisation, career, etc. They write because they love to. And in being allowed into their space, I remember that I write because I cannot not write. Whether I reach any measure of success in my career as a writer or not, I will always love the Word. And I will always write. Nandi reminded me of this, through her sharing of experience, thought and knowledge.<br /><br />It is not always easy, but we all need to remember why we do what we do. Why we find pleasure in those experiences. We also need to remember that success is defined by self. Keep on reaching, stay focused, remember and enjoy the ride. It is the experience that counts.<br /><br />Just a thought</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-68871495861969462732008-02-12T08:21:00.001+02:002008-02-22T15:43:10.004+02:00ramblings - still hereThe irregularity of ramblings is a positive symptom of this creature we call 'life'. It is nice to know that it is missed - if the random complaints I get is anything to go by. In all honesty, many a night, I start to scribble some thoughts down but they are never coherent enough to share so I delete them.<br /><br /><br /><br />Occassionally, I am invited to talk to kids about poetry and there are two things I always harp on about, two bits of contrived wisdom that I believe are important for anyone who seeks a writing lifestyle. These are:<br /><br /><br /><br />1. Read. If you do not know what other people have, and are, writing, how can you honestly say that you have a space within that realm.<br /><br /><br /><br />2. Live life. I am often asked what my inspiration is and, as cliched as it sounds, Life is what drives me. And I need to live it to find the reference points for my writing.<br /><br /><br /><br />Where am I going with this? Well, it is basically a roundabout excuse for why my ramblings are so erratic. I seem to have gone to the opposite extreme. I am so consumed by life that I have no time to write, which in itself is a different challenge. I am the first to go on about finding and living one's passion, one's purpose but this should also not fall victim to the joys and trials of living day-to-day.<br /><br /><br /><br />It is about finding balance, which I am grappling with right now. I sincerely believe that once we know where we are trying to go, we need to spend even a few minutes working towards this. Your purpose (or what a friend of mine refers to as your personal legend) should be the lens through which you look at the world.<br /><br /><br /><br />That said, also recognise that, as long as you use that lens and consciously work towards something, you will find that that there is progress, even when it doesn't seem so because, as the saying goes: many small things add up to something big.<br /><br /><br /><br />Thought I'd share that while I navigate the physical realm building the future I dream of. Not sure how much sense it makes.<br /><br /><br /><br />An erratic thought.Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-73668568890250862262008-01-08T09:01:00.000+02:002008-01-08T09:03:54.702+02:00ramblings - do what you need to doIt is that time of the year when we re-look at everything we are doing and start asking the hard questions. Somehow the change in calendar year always seems to bring renewed energy coupled with a bit of doubt. We tend to second-guess the choices we have made and re-think the choices we hope to make. It is easy to get so caught up in the thinking process that we end up not doing anything.
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<br>I believe that most important part of this 'building a life' thing is to determine your end destination. What it is you are working towards. Once you know that, it becomes easier to determine the path to take in reaching that point. What do you consider your purpose? Where do you see yourself in 10, 20, 30 years? Life is filled with abundant opportunity, but it doesn't always mean you should take advantage of every opportunity that comes your way.
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<br>The best way to establish what to pursue is to let your ultimate goal be the lens that you view the world with. Each thing you do should, directly or indirectly, help build towards that final resting place. It then makes it easier to also deal with obstacles and challenges that may arise. If you know why you are doing something, you become a lot more open and tolerant to stuff. At the same time, know when to let go, when something has run its full course and no longer contributes in any way to the 'master plan'.
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<br>Just a thought.Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-70902374362628435342008-01-02T23:34:00.000+02:002008-01-02T23:36:07.832+02:00ramblings - that time againIt's that time of the year again - the beginning. And every year, I, as well as countless others, share thoughts on how to deal with each year, or at least, what we should be thinking about this time of the year.
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<br>Every year, I spend the end in introspection and the beginning in planning. I lay out what I need to accomplish and review it at the end. My level of success? I can't honestly say it is high. My next collection of poetry is still in the making - it's been top of the list for two years now. At the same time, I do feel I have accomplished quite a bit, that wasn't on the list. How often do we take for granted what we have achieved, always looking for the 'big' moments when all the 'small' ones add up to more?
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<br>This year I've decided to take a different approach. We can't plan everything and, sometimes, our rigid plans make us feel even worse coz, the minute they veer off course, we are thrown into confusion. So, for 2008, I say, make plans but go with the flow. Make things come but focus on being fluid and flexible so you can change direction without too much pain.
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<br>Just a thoughtKojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-35755278960150040532007-12-28T23:42:00.000+02:002007-12-28T23:44:51.812+02:00ramblings - random rantingsI've been doing a lot of reading on the impact on this collaborative, information, prosumer era which has me grappling with thoughts that plagued me when I starting sharing my words, on stage, on page and onscreen, namely: relevance.
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<br>I, like so many (or the few who read these words) of you, blog. I spend time, albeit brief moments, scribbling thoughts, exposing myself for who I truly am and what I really think, but what is the relevance. Why do it? Who am I doing it for? You? Me? We?
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<br>As with most things in life, every action brings more questions. Every answer evokes two questions. What confuses me even more is that this action (random rantings online) has no answer. And yet I continue.
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<br>Sometimes I write with no purpose just so I can post..... I am of the school that writers should write, exercise that muscle, and, in time, something useful will come out of it.
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<br>I'm reading a book called Wikinomics and at the basis of it is the idea of collaboration (in all spheres) being the essence of this evolved information / digital age. I wonder whether through collaboration - my ramblings and your thoughts - I might find sanity.
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<br>Just a thought.Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-29920510436992103062007-12-27T14:42:00.000+02:002007-12-27T14:44:57.813+02:00ramblings - looking backI was recently going through my blog and came to the realisation that it's literally been a year since I posted regularly to this space. And in that time, so much has happened, so much time has passed by.
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<br>As a writer and a poet, I'm often asked what advice I would give to other aspiring wordsmiths. Beyond "don't do it, because it can be a loveless path to take, I am a firm believer in "living". Artists can be so self-indulgent, so inward looking. We talk about reflecting, highlighting and engaging with life but spend more time observing it than we do participating - maybe it's just me. But LIVING is a critical part to being able to artistically express and it is important that we embrace ALL aspects of life. We often restrict our engagement with life because we judge it, but that blocks us from experiences that may add value to our craft.
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<br>As a poet in Africa, there is much talk about poetry serving as the voice for the voiceless, as a tool for revolution or protest. While this is important, focusing solely on that means one's life is incomplete. What about love? Laughter? Clowning? These are all elements of being human. We are like Shrek, we have layers.
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<br>Where am I going with this? I feel I've gone the opposite route, which is a problem in itself. I have been so focused on living that I have neglected my passion, my essence - writing, sharing thought, word.
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<br>Hopefully, a year will not pass by again without words in this, the infinite pursuit of perfection.
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<br>Just a thoughtKojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-37289601133285260032007-12-10T22:14:00.000+02:002007-12-10T22:16:09.447+02:00Re-definition of SelfThe Internet, as it re-defines itself, has provided many of us with the opportunity to reach across immense distance to create communities with like-minded people we may never have met in our lifetimes. The advent of collaborative and interactive spaces, like blogs, facebook and MySpace, have created friendships that will last over lifetimes while also allowing many of us to re-establish friendships with those who have moved on.<p>Sitting in Africa, a continent that has become, again, a cause for the world, I have always tried to keep abreast, as much as I can, of the developments available to us all. I truly believe that the 'Information Age' is the one era in which there opportunity for us, as Africans, to start to level the playing field. This Blog was my first one, which I started as a space to discuss the one thing I am truly passionate about - poetry. Since starting this one, I have also started a poetry blog (<a href="http://imperfectpoetry.blogspot.com">http://imperfectpoetry.blogspot.com</a>) in which I post all my unedited raw poetry, two Myspace pages (<a href="http://www.myspace.com/kojobaffoe">www.myspace.com/kojobaffoe</a> and <a href="http://www.myspace.com/kojothepoet">www.myspace.com/kojothepoet</a>) and a space of Facebook. I also have a random e-newsletter that I send out to a growing list of people, in which I share my thoughts on a range of subjects. (Always worry about whether they are relevant or not)<p>Anyway, I have discovered that it is easy to caught up in all these things but, over the last few weeks, have started to question the purpose of these spaces, and the countless others I have registered with and never used (and will probably never use coz I can't remember my passwords). In my mind: MySpace is a place for marketing myself as a writer and performer - I have two because I only realised you have to register with My Space Music separately if you want to include music; Facebook is for connecting with friends and I have re-connected with friends I haven't spoken to in over a decade; and, Imperfect Poetry is a self-indulgent experiment driven by a need to share and find relevance in my writing. This space? I don't know. That's what I've been grappling with.<p>But, I do feel this space is important, especially as my first true step into this new world. So, in an attempt to revive this space, I would like to start including my Ramblings on it. At the same time, if there is anyone who still visits me here, I would like thoughts, ideas, guidance, comments, etc on what you would like to see and hear here from a simple, yet confused African (and European) poet and writer trying to make sense of this crazy reality we reside in.<p>It's been a while. But I'm still here. Are you?<p>Easy<p>KojoKojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1167809523419398422007-01-03T09:32:00.000+02:002007-01-03T09:32:03.426+02:00Just<p class="mobile-post">It's been a while since I posted anything here, been caught up with my space & struggling to clearly define the purpose of each space. Just felt the need to leave a few words here in celebration of another year beginning.</p><p class="mobile-post">The whole poetry thing continues to exist as a large part of who I am, and there are always big plans for further expression in that realm, but I never feel settled in it. Directionless with direction. Sometimes I wish I had the liberty of giving it up but I cannot. Can't live with it and can't live without it. Aaah, the joys of drawing breath.</p><p class="mobile-post">So! 2007. I do not do New Year's resolutions so it is about keeping on. Easy runnings </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1167808718183907762007-01-03T09:18:00.000+02:002007-01-03T09:18:38.246+02:00War<p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />The bombs rain down on the heads of unknown children<br />Their bodies are separated from their spirits<br />they return to the heavens<br />And forsake the physical</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />They carve our souls from the earth<br />Fertilise it with our blood<br />Build fortresses on our land<br />Take ownership of what is not theirs to take</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />They wage war in the name of an equality that makes them stronger<br />Renders us the weaker</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />The bullets penetrate our bodies<br />Cleave humanity from humankind<br />Evolve us to a state of barbarism that has never existed<br />In the name of civilisation</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />While we sleep</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />Our prophets, our heroes, our fathers, our mothers are killed and buried in mass graves of silence<br />Their words drowned by the drone of fighter planes and gunships that take ownership of the skies</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />Peace is reversed<br />War is birthed<br />Death becomes the norm<br />Mind control real<br />Passion smothered<br />Souls extinguished</p><p class="mobile-post">While we sleep<br />We lose our relevance<br />Our existence becomes irrelevant<br />Our legacy is silence<br />Our lives are nothing<br />We cannot run forever</p><p class="mobile-post">Wake up!<br />I said wake up, children of the night<br />The world is coming to an end<br />What shall you tell your children?</p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1162319239860146852006-10-31T20:27:00.000+02:002006-10-31T20:27:20.896+02:00Legitimacy<p class="mobile-post">In the beginning of time<br />There was silence<br />When thought was original<br />And the workings of man<br />Resided in the divinity of the gods</p><p class="mobile-post">Time ticked<br />The days crept through the residues of yesterday<br />And became today<br />And today thought is recycled<br />Our words have become imitations of past genius<br />Mere attempts to carve our place in the memories of our fellow being</p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1160683833544199122006-10-12T22:10:00.000+02:002006-10-12T22:10:33.646+02:00e-dance<p class="mobile-post">This technologically driven world is filled with possibility and some confusion. The Internet and, by extension, the created ability for all of us to make our thoughts felt has me twisted. Sadly, it is this space that has suffered for that. As a poet and writer seeking to build a career beyond the invisible borders of my current place of residence has me chasing every possibility. This was my first blog. I then created Imperfect Poetry (http://imperfectpoetry.blogspot.com) where I continue to post my poetry from my daily writing sessions. </p><p class="mobile-post">In the last two months I have discovered My Space which, from the perspective of getting heard, has come to serve as my main space. www.myspace.com/kojobaffoe. At the same time, a few months ago I started sharing my thoughts (ramblings) with a group of friends via email, which I also post on My Space. Creating and keeping some sort of electronic presence is hard work. </p><p class="mobile-post">I am making the assumption that there people out there interested in my words and thoughts. Please visit my space and imperfect poetry for regular word. Easy. </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1157922194110911762006-09-10T23:03:00.000+02:002006-09-10T23:03:14.180+02:00spaces<p class="mobile-post">This is all very confusing. I am being consumed by the possibilities the www provides. I am finding myself in so many spaces that I am starting to lose track and it has become a job in itself trying to keep all spaces updated and current. The cliche about 'spreading oneself thin' comes to mind. </p><p class="mobile-post">The list continues to grow. There are the two artist sites: <br />www.artistswithoutfrontiers.com (Writer's Section) and <br />http://othervoicespoetry.org/vol8/baffoe/index.html. My new excitement is that the Other Voices Project is coming out with an anthology and there is possibility of one of my poems being included in this. Also have a poem in the SA anthology Words Gone To Soon, celebrating two young writers who have passed on, Sello Duiker and Phaswane Mpe. </p><p class="mobile-post">Anyway, I also have this blog and my Imperfect Poetry blog. Finally, I've been sending out Daily Ramblings, my rampant thoughts, out by email to a group of friends. Chaos. Well, a friend recently suggested I look at www.myspace.com as a possible 'venue' for consolidation. Trying it out so check me out on www.myspace.com/kojobaffoe and let me know what you think.</p><p class="mobile-post">Poetically, things have been up and down but there is progress. In the last two weeks, I was MC/poet at the Joy of Jazz Festival that happens in Johannesburg every year, and performed at Sunday World Women's Celebration (a tabloid newspaper - made it into the paper without traditional 'bite' that seems to come with that privilege) and at a function for Ernst & Young. Flurry of activity I'm hoping will keep going. </p><p class="mobile-post">The hustle continues.</p><p class="mobile-post">Easy runnings </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1156971870311863242006-08-30T23:04:00.000+02:002006-08-30T23:04:54.070+02:00The word<p class="mobile-post">In the middle of a week's madness that, one day, I may look back on with some joy and humour. Last weekend was treacherous but exciting. I MCed at the Joy of Jazz Festival and, despite the cold, the chaos and the long hours, it was an experience I will always remember. Standing on a stage at a concert is totally different from performing as a poet. A poetry audience expects that and, therefore, it is easier to find a connection with that audience. Talking and doing poetry at a jazz festival is before people who seek music. Think it went down well enough. Tomorrow is another crazy day. I perform at a women's celebration for Sunday World and a corporate for Ernst & Young. Really looking forward to it and, hopefully, I will be able to do them justice. Anyway, just wanted to share.</p><p class="mobile-post">Easy </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1156368963640433432006-08-23T23:36:00.000+02:002006-08-23T23:36:03.706+02:00On the edge of something<p class="mobile-post">The days add up. Time keeps ticking. Life happens to us and we happen to life. I find myself setting new goals and finding new dreams but the word continues to flutter in the shadows whispering to me, urging me on. I've been quiet on the poetry front but active poetically. I write nearly every day and dream every night.</p><p class="mobile-post">I have always felt like I'm on the edge of something. Like all I need is a little push. A little luck even. I have been performing and actively writing for about 7 years now, but never seem to make it beyond a particular point. The last few months have forced me to re-think and re-determine what it is I'm doing. This weekend I perform at the Joy of Jazz Festival which is a level above which I have been operating. I am also performing at an event for Ernst & Young. What excites me about all of these is that I had to write specifically for the events. It is always a creative challenge to write on brief; how does one control and direct creativity? When it actually works, it is a beautiful thing.</p><p class="mobile-post">I have decided that this is the momentum I need to move things up a notch. I look to the heavens, I believe. In Word We Trust.</p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1156278806421076972006-08-22T22:33:00.000+02:002006-08-22T22:33:28.636+02:00Daily Ramblings #8<p class="mobile-post">Balance. So much about life relates to balance. Creating harmony between the different sides of who we are. I am a great believer in the faces we have have. Who we are depends on who we are talking to. When talking to a parent, we wear a different face from when talking to a friend or a lover or a person we meet on the street, etc, etc. There is an essence to who we are. There is a core essence to our beingness. But we change faces to protect that core. Some closer to who we are and some further. I do not consider it being fake but rather giving emphasis to a particular characteristic of us. Like Shrek and ogres, we are like onions - we got layers. The better we are able to find balance between these, the greater our peace of mind. And the greater our balance.</p><p class="mobile-post">Balance is everything. Calm. It's like standing in the middle of a seesaw, shifting weight to ensure that the seesaw levels out. Balance between work and play, between serious and frivolous, etc. The greatest difficulty I find, as a creative, is balance between artistic endeavour and the formality of livingm</p><p class="mobile-post">Find balance. The extreme, while eventful, can create chaos and confusion. Find your balance.</p><p class="mobile-post">Just a thought. </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1156098835719891532006-08-20T20:33:00.000+02:002006-08-20T20:33:55.853+02:00Daily ramblings #7<p class="mobile-post">I realise that a lot of what I think about is not new. It's not some innovative thought on the progress of mankind, but I do hope it has some relevance in being the thoughts of another human being. We do not share enough and without dialogue, there can be no progress. I believe in relativity as a state of existence. While there are universal 'rights and wrongs', much of what we think and do is in relation to where we are at a given point in time. Truth, your truth, depends on what is right for you at that moment. It is not written in stone and how often does one find themselves putting forward a thought that they once contradicted. The best you can do for yourself is acknowledge what you have and work with the information at your disposal. If that changes, then review your decisions and move forward. Truth is your own to decide. Stand by it.</p><p class="mobile-post">Just a thought. </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16727226.post-1155152768762472212006-08-09T21:46:00.000+02:002006-08-09T21:46:08.833+02:00Daily ramblings<p class="mobile-post">I've gone and created more drama for myself. In addition to this Blog and my Imperfect Poetry blog, I have now added another task to my list. For about a week now, I've been sharing my 'thoughts' of the day with a small group of friends. As the easy way out, I am going to be adding some of thoughts to this space, so below, please find the first one:</p><p class="mobile-post">Please allow me this indiscretion. For some time now, I have been encouraged to share my thoughts with those around me in a manner that might provide some element of clarity in this crazy reality. I do not assume that my outlook is of any relevance but I have been told, by some, that it does not hurt to share one's limited wisdom. I will be honest and say that this attempt has also been prompted by something I have seen.</p><p class="mobile-post">Anyway, the people I am sending this to are individuals I consider friends and / or family and the intention is to share the odd thought, every now and then, around my moments of clarity in the hope that it might provoke some process. I do have my blogs http://infinitepursuit.blogspot.com and http://imperfectpoetry.blogspot.com which serve as release points for me, and now I am adding this. If you do not wish to receive these 'thoughts of the day', please do not hesitate to inform me. Also feel free to pass them on, should they seem relevant.</p><p class="mobile-post">Thought of the day</p><p class="mobile-post">How do we define success? For those of us living in cities like Joburg, society seems to dictate a commercial and material outlook. It is becoming about 'the money'. How did our ancestors live? Did they define fulfilment in monetary terms or otherwise? </p><p class="mobile-post">Somehow I feel we are losing our souls in this pursuit of financial gain. It seems like that gain can only happen at the expense of others. I believe otherwise. Definition of self is an individual thing. Therefore definition of success is about the goals you set for yourself and not what society dictates as being success.</p><p class="mobile-post">Decide what it is you want to accomplish in your life. Determine where you want to be in 5, 10 years and work towards that. It may not always happen as you wish but that is life. It is hard enough without adding the shallow perspectives of this undefinable creature called society. Definition of your success can only be done by you.</p><p class="mobile-post">Easy runnings</p><p class="mobile-post">Kojo </p>Kojo Baffoehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15472205690649165945noreply@blogger.com2